Monday, May 12, 2014

The Weddingism

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Hermana Crandall
8 Ferguson Dr. #201
Stafford, VA 22554

Querida Familia,

     There it is! My new address! I am still serving in the Stafford Spanish Branch, but now my area covers the northern half of the Fredericksburg Stake. My companeras are: Hermana Penaloza, who was born in Ecuador and moved to New Jersey when she was 16. And Hermana Clark, who was born in West Virginia but her family now lives in Spanish Fork, UT. I love both of them very much and I'm so excited to be here!

     I spent my last evening in Fredericksburg having Family Home Evening with Hermana Warren. I didn't get very much sleep that night because Hermana Agurcia and I had to pack, clean, and prepare the apartment for new missionaries. We left a bajillion sticky notes behind about our investigators, the area, etc. Then on Tuesday morning, the Stafford Hermanas picked me up!

*Here's a little bit about the people we work with most:

     Jose - He missed a baptismal date in April so we're continuing to work with him. One of his roommates is a recent convert, who just entered the temple about a month ago. He knows it's true, but he's hesitant to change his life. 

     La Familia Santiago - They were baptized in January! They have a teenage daughter who I absolutely adore:) The Mom has lots of health problems so we help her out around the house. She also made us a delicious Bolivian dish for lunch this week:)

     Brenda - She's sort of less active, but she normally attends the English ward. Her younger sister passed away recently and it's really helped to build her faith. We're going to be having lunch with her and her neighbor tomorrow! Yay member missionaries!

     And then we have a ton of less-actives and less-active investigators. It's much harder to find Hispanics in Stafford than Fredericksburg because Stafford is a suburb of DC. Most of the people who live here are government employees or Marines on Quantico Marine Base.

     On Friday, the Branch had a really fun activity for Mothers' Day! The men in the ward decorated Thursday night and did all of the cooking. All of us women just got to enjoy while they served us and did a mini talent show! My camera died, but my companeras took some pics...hopefully they'll send some my way;)

*And here's the activity you've all been waiting for...

THE WEDDINGISM!

*Absalon and Natalia were married and baptized on Saturday!

     It was supposed to start at 5, but most people didn't show up until after 5:30. I've learned to have everything begin 1 hour before I want it to begin;) There was some drama about who was going to make the cake and who was going to decorate it. There was some confusion about programs. The water in the font ended up being icy cold. BUT it all somehow happened:) And Absalon and Natalia were very happy! I felt the Spirit most strongly when we sang the opening hymn, "Las Familias Pueden Ser Eternas." I know that they will be a forever family because of their decision to be baptized. Presidente Vasquez bore his testimony at the end about how their faith will bless many generations to come. 

     The after party was so much fun! There was a lot of food and dancing and music. By about 8:45, us missionaries started cleaning up. We left at about 9:30, and the dancing was still going strong. The Hermana Vasquez told us that they didn't leave until after 10:30!

     On Sunday Absalon and Natalia were confirmed during Sacrament Meeting and Absalon received the Aaronic Priesthood in Elders Quorum. I am super happy for them and I feel privileged to have been a small part of their conversion:) I really feel like they will be active all their lives! I hope I can come back in a year to see them sealed in the temple!

*Speaking of hope...that is the Christlike attribute that I'm studying this month! Here's what I've learned so far:

-President Wilson said, "Hope is to feel good about who you are and where you're going."
-Hope comes when we have faith in Jesus Christ and the promises he's made to us.
-Hope is the anchor to my soul--it keeps me in place. For this, hope is demonstrated by temperance, optimism, enthusiasm, confidence, and patience. We can feel peace in maintaining a hopeful eternal perspective.
-D&C 138:14 - "Firm in the hope of a glorious resurrection." I love the word glorious here:)
-D&C 128:21 - The revealing of priesthood keys (the mysteries of God/ordinances) will confirm our hope a little bit at a time. This includes the ordinance of the sacrament.
-Pres. Faust: "The unfailing source of our hope is that we are sons and daughters of God and that His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, saved us from death."

*I'm very happy to be studying hope this month because it is such a positive attribute!

     This week I have my notebook with me, so I want to share more about what I learned from Elder Bednar and the other visiting General Authorities!

-Temple = Lord's University / Mission = Study Abroad

-That which is bitter to endure is sweet to remember.

-When I have children, I will hope that they struggle on their missions, but overcome.

-I ask someone a question with a predetermined answer, then I'm making them an object because I'm asking them to guess what I'm thinking instead of thinking for themselves.

-Observe, listen, and discern. THEN speak. If I don't take the time to observe, listen, and discern, then I might as well be talking to myself.

**This is the one that made me think of Mom: Doing everything for my child will cripple them. I need to teach them how to get their own answers from the scriptures instead of letting them rely on me for their answers. It's the same way with investigators. They need to know how to use the scriptures--not just know that they're true.

-"This Kingdom is a laboratory, not a museum"

-Don't look to an external factor for how I'm doing spiritually.

-If I'm not learning from my prayers, then I need to stay on my knees longer.

-You can't give away what you don't have, and once you have it you can't give it away anyway. You can only teach others how to gain it.

-Reading isn't in the territory of revelation. Searching and studying are!

-"All of the faith and all of the worthiness in the world will not change God's will!" (This made me think of the Savior. He was perfect, but even He had to submit to the Father's will.)

-"If you don't want to sleep at night, go study in the scriptures what happens to covenant breakers." (Sometimes Elder Bednar gets really passionate;)

*Apostolic blessing: For my desire and diligence, as I am good (not perfect) and do those things which I am supposed to do every day, I will become who I hope to become, endure, and never fall away.

     What a great meeting:)

I love you all so much! Happy Mothers' Day to all of you lovely woman in my life!  Love,  Hermana Crandall

*PS - I ate ormigas at Presidente Vasquez's home last night. Hermana Clark took a video of it, so hopefully I'll get that to you someday. Ormigas is a really fine Peruvian dish of giant ants. I ate about 5 or 6 of them. :P

*PPS - Please write!!
Hermana Crandall
8 Ferguson Dr. #201
Stafford, VA 22401

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